Grad School = DONE! Time to Decompress.

I can’t believe it.

I can’t believe I accomplished everything I needed to do in order to graduate this December.

Back in the summer when I was writing a list of everything I had left, I seriously doubted my abilities.

Here’s a list of what I needed to accomplish by early December:

-Pass my two Fall graduate classes
-Finish up my masters thesis research
-Write my masters thesis
-Finish up my 140-hour practicum/internship
-Study for my comprehensive exam (an exam that covered 2.5 years worth of material)
-Take the 9-hour long comprehensive exam (ah!)
-Revise my masters thesis (x5… what a process!)
-Keep up with my classwork (papers, group project assignments, and readings galore)
-Write a review of my internship/practicum (35+ page paper, summary slideshow)
-Stay sane

Somehow, this all got finished.

And that’s on top of working fulltime, nursing Ryan back to health (from his surgery back in August), buying a house, moving, two trips (one 24 hour trip to Chicago to see Ryan accept a national PR award, and another 5 day trip to Minneapolis,MN for work).

As of Wednesday, I am completely done with my graduate school work.

I graduate next week (but I’m going to Chapel Hill to walk in May), and I could not be happier.

Working fulltime while going to school is a lot to have on one plate. This is one of my biggest accomplishments yet.

Now that life has slowed down some, I am excited to focus my enegery on things I want to do for pleasure. Like read books for fun! Watch TV shows! Pin all of the things! And wholeheartedly enjoy my nights and weekends.

On Wednesday, Ryan brought a bottle of Champagne home, knowing I had finished up all of my work that day. Perfection.

Twist my arm.

Twist my arm.

The past two nights I’ve come home from work and have not had any text books to crack open or any (school related) deadlines looming over my head. It feels SO GOOD and I am just so happy. I have my personal free-time back again. I feel like I can finally focus on me again.

The past few months I’ve really buckled down to get all of this work done. I can’t wait to hang out with my friends again without having to schedule things out way ahead of time, and unpack my house some more! I am ready to decompress.

And to kick things off, Ryan and I are headed to the airport tomorrow! He was asked to go on this trip a few weeks back, and somehow it worked out that I’m able to tag along (my birthday is on Monday and he was hoping to be able to celebrate with me).

What’s even more fun is that Ryan hasn’t told me yet where we are going. In fact, he told me he’s going to take me to the wrong gate at the airport to keep up the surprise-factor. Needless to say, I am SO excited! I don’t care where it is…I’m just going to relax, catch up on sleep, and explore.

Ryan’s been traveling a lot for work recently (he just got back from LA on Sunday…he was at the MLS cup, best job ever for a soccer fan) so I have a feeling it might be a bigger city. But who knows!

All I know is that I’m ready for some R&R.

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Closing Time

Well… It’s official.

October is the best month out of the year. Hands down.

In addition to meeting Ryan this month four years ago (10/23/08) and adopting Happy two years ago (10/12/10), we’re adding another reason why October ranks so high…

10/11/12: the day we become HOMEOWNERS!!!!!

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Taking the “final walk through” (10/10/12)

How this came about is a crazy story.

Ryan and I weren’t even planning on looking for a new house until after I graduated this December from graduate school. But…I’ve always had buying a house in the back of my mind, especially since we got engaged at the beginning of the year.

My mom has been big into real estate ever since the early 90s so I’ve seen all of the craziness that goes down during the home buying (and selling) process. It’s quite time consuming, and all of the negotiations and potential for deals to fall through can take a toll. And then, of course, there is the upkeep that goes along with owning a home. Needless to say, Ryan and I weren’t ready to start looking yet. With our lease ending January 31st, 2013, we figured we’d start looking in December once I was done with school and go from there, hoping to find something during the spring/summer of 2013.

Well, this whole year I’ve been keeping my eyes out on homes as I go out on runs around the neighborhood. As I said before, I’ve seen my mom do her thing with homes for over two decades. Whenever I saw a home that striked my interest, I picked up the little flyer and took it home with me to look up online later. Usually, the homes were ridiculously out of our price range (even though the square footage isn’t that big) but due to the location of this area (we’re talking a historic district, 5 minutes from uptown, a view of the city skyline, and a great school system), property is prime.  You know what they say…location, location, location.

Nevertheless, I’ve always dreamed of having a home in this neighborhood one day. Not only is the location incredible, but the public school system is very, very good. Both Ryan and I grew up in public schools and we want the same for our kids some day (because, well, private school is WAY too expensive and we still want our kids to go to a great school). So, our plan was to buy a starter home somewhere in Charlotte and work our way towards moving into this school system in the (far away) future.

Welp, the universe had other plans for us. We stumbled across a house in the historic Dilworth area on Monday, September 10th… and as it turns out, we are buying that home… TODAY!

Closing is late this afternoon, and I could not be more excited Smile

This home is our dream home. It’s got a HUGE fenced-in back yard (we’ve taken Happy to see it already and she *loves* it), a large deck out back with a cozy patio underneath, and room for expansion if we decide to add an addition later on. Our new home has 4 bedrooms, 3 (full) baths, a bright and fresh kitchen, and a fully renovated lower level. It’s located in a historic district in Charlotte and literally a block away from Freedom Park. In fact, it’s only 2 blocks away from where we are currently renting our apartment. And! It has a man-cave for Ryan. Well, a bedroom-turned mancave :) Things have fallen into place so seamlessly.The gal who showed us our apartment 3 years ago when Ryan and I were apartment hunting for the place we are currently in now is actually involved with the whole house process (she changed jobs in those years and just happened to be connected to the seller’s side). She’s an incredible woman and I’ve kept in touch with her over the years. Coming full-circle in this way really made the decision feel “right.”

In fact, circumstances with our lease have turned out in our favor as well. Instead of having to pay rent until the end of January, we are able to break our lease as our complex has a waiting list of people who are wanting to rent. There is more “full-circle-ness” to this piece of the puzzle as well, but I don’t want to divulge too much. Let’s just say I am very sad to be leaving our apartment (our first place together! we got engaged here!) but I am excited for who will be moving into it next :)

Our realtor is an incredible woman as well (she reminds me SO much of my mom). For those of you in Charlotte, her name is Debe Maxwell — she’s with Savvy & Co. and is AMAZING at what she does and has been such a pleasure to work with. Truly. She also has incredible connections in Charlotte, too. It’s amazing all that goes on during the moving process… we’ve learned quite a bit!

Ryan and I are starting to pack things up tonight and start moving tomorrow! We have a moving company to help us with our big pieces of furniture late next week, and next weekend we will officially be all set up in our new house — just in time to host some visitors, as BOTH sets of our parents (well, the moms) are coming to town (both visits were planned WAY before buying a house was even on our radar, so this makes their visits even extra exciting!).

Ryan’s mom, Rhonda, and stepdad, Marty, have come to celebrate Thanksgiving with us for the past three years –with a Christmas celebration thrown in there at the same time. We call it “ChrisGiving” –it’s a tradition we all absolutely adore. This year is a little different, though, as Ryan’s mom is unable to come for the actual Thanksgiving holiday. Because she can’t come this year, she has been planning on visiting us in late October, instead, and turning that visit into an early ChrisGiving feast. My parent’s venture down to Florida was postponed due to some health issues, so instead of early October, they are now driving to Florida the same weekend Ryan’s mom is coming into town. My mom and Ryan’s mom have never met each other in person before (although they’ve chatted on the phone and Skyped throughout the years, ha!). I am SO EXCITED they finally get to meet for the first time! And on top of that? We all get to have a Thanksgiving feast together! I haven’t had a Thanksgiving feast with my mom and Gerry since my senior year of college – 5 years ago. Needless to say, I am SO EXCITED!

Now we just need to figure out where to seat everyone. I don’t think our two queen sized beds or rocking chairs are going to cut it…

Looks like Ryan and I might take a break from packing this weekend to venture out and look for dining room furniture! We will see :)

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Homeowners!!!!

And now… some more pictures.

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The (old) Deck (it’s currently being redone by the seller – all new wood!)

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Lower level leading out to the patio through the double French doors

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Kitchen (with all new appliances, our seller is awesome…)

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I <3 the blue backsplash

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Back of the house

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View of firepit area and backyard from the deck

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<3 the architecture!

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Ryan in deep thought over whether or not we want to move forward with putting in an offer

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Bar in the lower level? Yes, please.

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Secret doorway (in the form of a bookcase) leading into the spacious laundry room

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porch swing!

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Happy’s heaven (!!!)

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Hello, October

Just wanted to pop in and express how excited I am that October is here! 

This month is one of my favorites for so many reasons — the change in weather to cooler days, the beautiful colors of fall leaves, road trips, apple picking (!), and the start of the holiday season – my ALLTIME favorite time of the year!

This month is also special to me for a few other reasons, namely… it is the month I met Ryan some four years ago (10/23/08 –howww has it been 4 years already?!), and it is the month we adopted Happy (2 years ago, 10/12/10).

Hopefully we’ll have one more thing to add to our list by the month’s end :P  

But first? I need to take (and pass) my 9-hour long comprehensive exam this coming Saturday.

NINE hours, people. I don’t think I can even sit still that long….

It’s a written exam and it covers all 2.5 years of my graduate school classes. If I don’t pass, I don’t graduate in December. Talk about pressure.

Currently, I am up to my eyeballs in papers, notebooks, & textbooks (and sometimes tears).

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Literally.

Ryan came by me the other night thinking I was studying hard on the couch,  surrounded by papers and books with a pen in hand. It wasn’t until he got closer to me that that he saw the drool all over the pillow. And highlighter on my face. His laughter woke me up. Whoops…

Apparently I’m trying a new studying skill called “osmosis by sleep”.

I’ll let you know how it works come Saturday.

Wish me luck!

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